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My cousin Debbie's X husband's daughter. She is so precious. click to enlarge

Comments

[Kitsune]

So, Debbie has other children with her X who CAN come to her house, but not this girl?

[lori braun]

Yes. I suppose so. Do you think that is wrong? This little girl is not her daughter and she has a terrible relationshop with her X.

[Kitsune]

I don't know much about children (never had any), except that at her age they are very impressionable. I don't know if it's wrong, but it can't be ideal for her emotional development. Just the way it is, I guess.

She is adorable, though. -.-

[Kitsune]

Actually, I do think it's wrong, esp. if the other children are her siblings and share the same father. Yes, my gut feeling is that's awful.

[Kat]

I think it's perfectly fine to exclude this one girl from the rest of her siblings when the ex-wife is around. The ex-wife has no obligation to this little girl, so why should she waste the effort into knowing or including this girl in these activities. The ex-wife wants to know her kids and take care of them, with this little girl in the picture, there's already a feeling of uneasiness. Why increase the level of uneasiness by including this little girl in their activities. Besides, this is a good lesson for a little girl to learn, sometimes in life, you're going to be excluded from things.

[Kitsune]

Maybe Debbie is afraid she'd be abusive toward this girl if she included her in her other children's visits because of her animosity toward her ex.

[Kitsune]

So doing the girl a favor in the process.

[Schmegeggy]

Hey, shouldn't you be on your cousin's side in this? Family should always back each other up.

[Kat]

From the picture, there's no innocense or sincerity in this girl's eyes. She's giving the middle finger as a hurtful jesture more than playful thing to do as a joke.

[Tanuki]

Are you drunk, Kitsune? This doesn't exactly plead a sympathy case.

[Kitsune]

After thinking more about it, I agree with Kat. What Debbie's doing isn't wrong. The acrimony that may affect this girl is a shame, but that really isn't Debbie's problem or responsibility.

Now I'll get drunk...