Have you ever been lonely even when your lover is in your bed with you?

I just read an article about a women who was going to be married in a few weeks.
 She said that she loves her fiancee very much, but they do not have much in common. I thought to myself that this might be a problem for her. The young women stated that her husband to be, is withdrawn. When she is with him she feels more lonely then when she is really alone. Is this possible? [This is not fiction but true life]

The women also stated that she was strong enough  to be on her own at this point in her life. I was wondering if this is common in relationships. One other thing she said was that he is very moody but, then again aren't we all at times?

Comments

[Tanuki]

Lori, whether this is a con game, or it's real, you probably should see a psychologist. What does Janet have to say? How could you go on your website with something like this if it's serious? I hope you're just playing a prank. If so, it's not funny.

[Tanuki]

Sorry. I totally freaked.

[Inatku]

I think Tanuki needs the psychologist.

[zoey]

i think if ur not sure yourself, then you should talk to HIM, not other ppl on your website. Because this decision will at the end of the day, affect you and no anyone on your website! i feel that this is such a personal thing for you to be putting out there. its very brave of you! anyway, hope you make the right decision and you know all your fans on reading this will agree! we jut want to see you happy!!! xzoeyx

[Robert.C Reuhl]

I think you are looking for input in the positieve way from strangers,some times it is good to read other un know people opinions,their way of thinking(feelings)about your feeling in relionships can bring in new and old points of view about your own feelings. Aldo I do know your feeling very well to, I think you must tell to your partner "your" feelings at the right time - very - soon. Than you can try to work on the problem, like I do..
By always your self, grt Robert.R from NL

[Lori Victoria Braun]

No, it is not a joke. Why would I joke about something like this. Not a prank either.

[Lori Victoria Braun]

Thank you Zoey...I will talk to him later today. I know it is very personal.

[Lori Victoria Braun]

Thank you Robert for you input. Very helpful. I will tell him my feelings. I guess this comment was too personal for me to put up. I did not think so after my Tyler story which is very personal as well.

[Tanuki]

Lori, you are right to reach out in anyway that feels comfortable. I over-reacted and worried too much. The people here seem really cool and willing to help. Like Zoey says, your happiness is the important thing.

[Rona Barrett]

Well, Lori, do you know if this person has sorted out her dilemma? All I know is, if she's as fantastic a person as you are, she deserves a fantastic partner, too.

[TNK]

Whao baby, your hippiness really turns me on.